[epaper_spi] Support SSD1683 and GDEY042T81 4.2 inch display (#13910)

tests/components/epaper_spi/test.esp32-s3-idf.yaml

@@ -145,3 +145,19 @@ display:
       it.filled_rectangle(0, 0, it.get_width(), it.get_height(), Color::WHITE);
       it.circle(it.get_width() / 2, it.get_height() / 2, 30, Color::BLACK);
       it.circle(it.get_width() / 2, it.get_height() / 2, 20, Color(255, 0, 0));
+
+  - platform: epaper_spi
+    spi_id: spi_bus
+    model: goodisplay-gdey042t81-4.2
+    cs_pin:
+      allow_other_uses: true
+      number: GPIO5
+    dc_pin:
+      allow_other_uses: true
+      number: GPIO17
+    reset_pin:
+      allow_other_uses: true
+      number: GPIO16
+    busy_pin:
+      allow_other_uses: true
+      number: GPIO4